URANUS IN THE HOUSES (NATAL/BIRTH CHART)
URANUS in a HOUSE kind of flip flops the purpose of the house. Basically, it takes the house and makes it cray. I wrote the first part of this on Facebook a couple weeks ago, and added more to each one, for all your google search needs:) These are my own words, so I appreciate no one taking them and making them their own. They may or may not be completely true of you, depending on your own opps, squares, trines and sextiles to URANUS.
(For another perspective you can read these for the sign your Uranus falls in, as well, though some things will slightly differ. Remember that Uranus moves slowly, so all of your peers have their Uranus in the same sign, just different houses)
In my (Alyssa’s) words, URANUS is the sign of ACCEPTANCE. He’s confused, he’s different, he’s innovative and genius, but he deeply wants someone to love him and ACCEPT him for all of uniqueness. Can we be so completely different from each other and still also loved by each other? That is the question. We find the answer to that, and we will also find peace inside ourselves.
URANUS falls in one of the following 6 natal houses to teach the individual how to accept themselves as unique and to show them that they can’t go it alone. These people have a creative mission to do, and it will be made easier with the supportive help of a partner (business or romantic):
1st house (Ruled by Aries). Your personality is original and different—uniquely hilarious. You can feel a little bi-polar with this placement, and some even bi-sexual, but for the most part you have two different personalities, and you have learned to utilize both of them. Now, if you could learn to love both of them, and accept that others don’t always “get” your humor, you might be able to avoid hurt feelings all around you. “Hurt people hurt people,” so it might feel like people are trying to attack you for no reason. This is the comedic placement, one that everyone around you will enjoy, but it can be hard to keep relationships, as husbands and wives don’t like dealing with unpredictable mood swings. Working on yourself, defining your goals, and allowing constructive criticism from people that you love can be beneficial.
2nd house (Ruled by Taurus). You run from security, walls and money like it’s your job. Maybe these things were taken from you, and so you just have learned to live in the chaos, and now it seems to be something you have let define you. Sometimes these people can end up hoarding money in their bank accounts and living in shacks or even being homeless. Don’t allow yourself to live so deeply in chaos that you avoid past lessons. History always repeats itself, and so it is good to look into the past. You can become addicted to going your own way, and sometimes allowing someone else to ground you, can give you the true freedom you really desire.
3rd house (Ruled by Gemini). You may never say a word for shits and giggles, and then you might turn around and play the devil’s advocate. School was normally really exciting for you, but you could never communicate correctly the first time, so you learned to just laugh at yourself, and purposefully say crazy things. You’ve gotten used to being funny and silly, though you know you are truly smart and ingenious, so don’t allow people to take advantage of that. You might be used for the wrong thing, as you haven’t figured out how to communicate what you really want out of life. You probably have a favorite quote or picture, and getting that tattooed on you is something that seems like the right idea—that is, if you haven’t already done it. Accepting other people’s point of view is also really important, don’t get lost in your own genius mind.
4th house (Ruled by Cancer). You lack the nurturing capabilities. Home was never a real home for you, so you have set yourself out on a journey to find it (or avoid it). In fact, living at home might have felt like a job to you, as your parents might have put you on a stage—like modeling or acting at a young age. It seems that every time you are about to settle down, something happens and you are forced to be a nomad, crashing on couches, or just fighting off crazy family members and psycho exes. Remember that touch is an important lifeline, so go out of your way to ask for and receive touch, and give it to those that look lost, no matter how awkward that part of life is to you. Learning to accept basic nurturing, will in turn, help you bring more of it to your life.
5th house (Ruled by Leo). Having fun takes on a whole new meaning with you. Sometimes your idea of fun is lame to everyone else, but expressing your creativity is bound to break rules, however you look at it. Normally you are very particular about what you put on your body, but you feel the need to express your creativity in a fun, flirtatious way—so many very tattooed people have this placement. It can be said that you have fun cleaning and organizing, as adult things are exciting to you, so sometimes you feel at a loss when it comes to thinking of things to say to children. You normally talk to kids the way you would talk to adults, and as a kid, you probably wanted someone to talk to you like you were an adult, and they did. Basically, you begged to be an adult when you were a child, and that wish was granted, so now that you’re here, you wish you could be a kid again. Asking for help from others is important, you might be able to do things yourself, as you always have, but this time you don’t have to.
6th house (Ruled by Virgo). Sitting at a desk in a cubicle sounds like torture, or just hell. Or both. You are normally very messy when you work, but you seem to know where everything is, as your brain is not made of boxes, but actually a giant, interconnected web. You feel like you could be a great inventor, and might have created many different things in your time on earth. You probably have great ideas about losing weight, and then you go on Taco Bell binge eating vacations. You like to challenge tried and true ideas, and believe your own insight should be heard, but might have a problem building a platform to stand on. When you get really involved in a project, make sure to remember to eat, sleep and shower. You can get physically and mentally (abnormally) sick when you avoid your own needs. Outside stability is really beneficial for you, don’t pretend that you can do it all by yourself.
URANUS falls in one of the following 6 natal houses to teach the individual how to accept themselves for who they are. Only after the individual learns this, does URANUS allow them to change the world around them. These people have a creative mission to do alone. Asking for someone else to make it easier for them, always makes things harder:
7th house (Ruled by Libra). You demand love from someone unconventional, if you’re going to settle down at all. You feel that you’re so simple and normal, that you must choose a mate that is the opposite of that—sometimes these people might actually choose you, as well. What you don’t know is that no one is “normal” least of all you, and these partners you choose, are actually a reflection of your own inner crazy. Allow them to help you uncover your true self, and then allow yourself to accept what is found there. Don’t get a superiority complex on your partners, acting as the “straight man,” when in fact, your decision in choosing a partner speaks volumes about your own hidden freak flag. Also, remember that staying in a relationship with someone who is actually crazy, is not healthy. You might get a hero complex, where you believe that you can save someone, but mostly the crazy drags you right down with it, and you both lose.
8th house (Ruled by Scorpio). Life might be quite the process of letting go of the crazy things that happened in your past. The 8th house jails the planet inside of it, making the planet relive the same thing over and over again, never allowing it find it’s grown up expression in the outside world. This can make you feel like reliving the past is enough for you, so you never actually go out and experience new things—afraid that they might be even more insane. Don’t get addicted to therapy, in the way of substance abuse, teacher/student relationships, or actual therapy. It’s good to do these things for a little while, but then you have to experience real life. Spending your life in a self-made jail cell, when you’re not actually forced to be in one, is no life at all. Anything in the 8th, especially Uranus is actually great for those who want to write, or create, you just have to pull the trigger and move yourself forward.
9th house (Ruled by Sagittarius). School sucks. You are smarter than the system. You’ve spent your whole life telling people that you just can’t “do school” and they always tell you that you are lying to yourself, and that you’re too smart to not go learn. Rest easy, you are not lying to yourself. If your 10th house is your career, and the 9th house is the only way to get you there, you need to get creative and open up new routes to achieve your dreams. Don’t avoid the 9th house lesson, just because a college or university is not for you, and don’t waste your money on things that you instinctually know will wall you in. The 9th house is about freedom and so many of us spend a lot of our years accepting the cage. Break free of the cage, but don’t lose yourself to freedom for freedom’s sake, you may never find your life’s purpose that way. Inner balance is key here.
10th house (Ruled by Capricorn). You might get a neck tattoo, because having a normal career doesn’t make any sense to you anyway. You might lie about yourself on social media, because you feel that if you can make someone believe something about you, the power of attraction will make it so. You are constantly trying to teach others how to accept you, without “Changing for anybody”—you’re right, you don’t have to change for people, but work hard on being who you WANT to be, not just the devil’s advocate, and DON’T try to make people change for you. You need to allow yourself to have a career, don’t sell yourself short just because you haven’t found a mold to fit in to. When it’s all said and done, you will find that you’re the one who doesn’t accept the world, not that the world doesn’t accept you. When you see that, you will learn how to make the correct changes to yourself (not just for creative expression, but also personal betterment) and to the world as we know it.
11th house (Ruled by Aquarius). Finding people that accept you for who you are, seems to be your biggest challenge, but actually the acceptance from within yourself is much more overlooked with this placement. Most of your current friends you have known your whole life, and you hate the idea of finding new ones, so you do appear to be standoffish (subconsciously). In the 21st century, you will probably meet most of your new friends on the internet, so you can keep people from getting close to you, as you probably felt like a loner most of your life, and have these deep seeded insecurities about acceptance. If a blind date was your only option to meet your spouse, you would rather be alone forever, as you are generally afraid of people who you have never met. There are plenty of people (outside of the internet) who already want to know you, you just have to allow them in, before you jump to conclusions about their bad intentions with you. And when you do accept yourself first, and allow for real friendships, even when they hurt, you will find that your networking skills can take you much further than you would have ever dreamed.
12th house (Ruled by Pisces). Most likely, one of your parents put a lot of psychological limits on you, to the point where you always have to face these mental blocks. You kill yourself inside just to break through, and it seems impossible. You know you could bend spoons with your mind, if you could just get off the crazy pills. You pretend to be logical and analytical, so that you don’t scare anyone away, but that’s not who you are. You are different minded through and through, and the world needs you to accept yourself for who you really are, not who you think you are supposed to be—your physical or mental health might suffer otherwise, and new ideas will cease to be born from your subconscious.
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